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Relationships, Reputation, and the Road Ahead: Building a Sustainable Legal Career

“It’s not just what you know — it’s who you know.”
This timeless phrase rings especially true in the legal profession, where technical skill, while essential, is only part of the equation. The early years of a legal career are formative — not just in terms of practice but in how you begin to shape your identity, reputation, and relationships in a demanding and interconnected profession.

To succeed in law, you must cultivate more than knowledge. You must build a network, live by a strong ethical code, and approach your career with strategic intent. This article explores how young attorneys can position themselves for long-term success through relationships, reputation-building, and intentional career planning.

Building Your Internal Board of Directors

No one succeeds in law alone. A sustainable legal career depends on your ability to surround yourself with individuals who are invested in your growth, your personal board of directors. These individuals can come from various stages of their own careers and serve different, equally important roles in your professional life. Some may be law school classmates or current colleagues, but some must be from different backgrounds and have had unique experiences to offer a wide range of perspective.

Key Relationships to Cultivate:

  • Peers: Share experiences, challenges, and early career lessons. Your peer group can become a foundational support network, helpful outside counsel, and referral sources down the road.
  • Mid-Level Attorneys: These attorneys are only a few years ahead of you and are well-positioned to offer actionable advice. Ask them how they advanced, what early mistakes to avoid, and how to approach the next few years. 
  • Member of the C-suite, Experienced Attorneys and Partners: These are the gatekeepers of opportunity. They have the networks, clients, and institutional knowledge that can accelerate your growth. Attend events with them, ask questions about the interworking of your organization, and listen closely and pay attention. Be present where they are. Yes, that might mean investing in formalwear to be ready for the occasional gala or charity event.

Importantly, these relationships must be mutual. The phrase “need a friend, be a friend” applies here. Don’t view mentorship or networking as one-sided. When you invest in others, the return is often exponential.

Also, consider leveraging existing affiliations, such as undergraduate alumni groups, high school connections, or fraternal/sorority organizations. Volunteer or engage in these organizations to expand your reach. Relationships don’t need to be transactional to be valuable. 

Authenticity Is Not Optional

Law is a relationship business, and successful relationships, personal or professional, require authenticity.

You are a counselor at law. Clients, colleagues, shareholders, and even adversaries trust those who demonstrate genuine investment, not just in outcomes, but in people. If you want to provide meaningful counsel, you must be appropriately engaged in your work and community.

Authenticity cannot be manufactured. People will sense insincerity quickly, and trust, once broken, is difficult to rebuild.

Report-Nov25-SustainHow to Build and Sustain Your Network

Your network is built over time, not in bursts, but through consistent, thoughtful engagement.

Practical Steps:

  • Reconnect with former professors, classmates, and supervisors.
  • Reach out periodically. Even short, friendly messages or LinkedIn comments can keep relationships warm.
  • Ask your mentor or a professional development expert how to expand your network.
  • Join bar associations, relevant trade organizations, nonprofits, or community organizations aligned with your interests.
  • Volunteer strategically. Shared service often leads to deeper, more authentic connections.
  • Be open and approachable. Most people are also looking to build their networks.

If you are targeting a specific connection, use mutual contacts to make a warm introduction instead of sending a cold email.

Do the Right Thing—Always

Especially in the early years, your ethical reputation is everything. Your legal knowledge will grow, but your reputation begins developing on day one and follows you throughout your career.

You may not love every job you take in your first decade of practice. It happens. But every role is an opportunity to learn, build credibility, show commitment, and leave on good terms (i.e. with references and work that makes you proud).

When I was a young prosecutor, I defined my moral compass using three core principles:

  • Honesty
  • Integrity
  • Respect

These are not just abstract values, they are professional tools. Define your own moral code early, and ensure your actions consistently align with it. Doing the right thing, even when inconvenient or challenging is what distinguishes true professionals from the rest.

Developing and Managing Your Personal Brand

Whether you’re aware of it or not, you are building a personal brand. In law, your reputation is often as important as your résumé.

Start by crafting a professional elevator pitch. Early on, it can be general. As your experience grows, it should evolve to reflect your experience, strengths, and aspirations.

Ask Yourself:

  • What do you want to be known for?
  • What makes your approach or skillset unique?
  • How do others describe working with you?
  • What strengths can you lean into and develop further?

Be mindful that in this profession, you are always “on.” Your online presence, behavior at events, even your body language in meetings, all contribute to how others perceive you.

If you were hiring an attorney, how would you want them to behave? What level of professionalism, discretion, and empathy would you expect? Practice being that person consistently.

Career-Focused vs. Job-Focused Thinking

There’s a clear distinction between doing your job and building your career. A job might end, but your career continues.

You may work in two, three, or even four different places in your first ten years of practice. That’s not failure, it’s growth and more common these days. What matters is how you perform, how you leave, how you maintain the relationships built along the way.

Don’t “quiet quit.” Don’t burn bridges. And don’t disappear after a matter closes. Stay in touch with those you’ve worked with. Reaching out during meaningful times: birthdays, anniversaries, promotions, keeps your network active and authentic.

Play to Your Strengths

No one excels at everything, and you don’t need to. Identify what you do well and build your practice around those strengths.

If you’re a strong writer but an average networker, write articles, blogs, or practice guides. If you’re a great communicator, seek speaking opportunities, such as presenting at a seminar or an internal training. Leveraging your strengths is more effective and often more fulfilling than obsessively trying to “fix” your weaknesses.

Over time, surround yourself with colleagues whose strengths complement yours. The best teams are built with diversity of skill, not uniformity.

Leveraging the Broader Legal Community

Your firm or organization is just one part of the legal or business ecosystem. The broader legal community can provide mentorship, visibility, and opportunity beyond your current role.

Consider:

  • Joining relevant bar sections, legal committees, or Inns of Court.
  • Attending events where leading professionals in your field are speaking.
  • Staying in touch with law professors and, when the time is right, considering teaching as an adjunct.

These relationships are invaluable when you’re looking to transition, expand your practice, or deepen your expertise.

Final Thoughts: This Is a Relationship Business

A sustainable legal career isn’t built overnight. It’s the product of strategic thinking, ethical consistency, and a willingness to invest in others. You and your career are worth it. 

Build your internal board of directors. Define your values and live by them. Develop your brand with purpose. Stay focused on your career, not just your current job.

Above all, remember: Law is a relationship business. The earlier you embrace that, the more fulfilling and successful your career will be. 


Kate Christoff serves as the Director of Legal Talent for Keating Muething & Klelamp PLL.  In her role, she oversees law student and attorney hiring, manages the firm’s professional development programs, and administers the Associate Mentor program, Retention & Advancement, Culture & Opportunity, and Associates Committees.  Kate previously served as a Career Counselor in the Center for Professional Development at the University of Cincinnati College of Law. 

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